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Introduction
How To Be Your Own Date 9 solo date ideas: Hello friends, as you know how much I like to travel solo. And it has been a long time since I have been traveling solo. I have had many amazing experiences during this time.
So today I have brought 9 such solo date ideas in front of you. Which you will definitely like very much.
When you go to all these places, you will feel a different feeling. And believe me, your heart will be very happy after coming here.
The blog has been designed in such a way that if you are a beginner in solo traveling or want to go somewhere on a solo date, then this blog will help you.
I have covered everything from coffee dates to nature, walk and hiking in this blog. In whichever category you want to travel solo, you can do it after reading this.
So let’s know which are those 9 solo date ideas that will change your life.
How To Be Your Own Date 9 Solo Date Ideas
Before knowing about those 9 places, I want to share a small experience of my first solo date. So this is about those days when I used to study in college.
One day, when our friends were planning to go to a cafe, due to some reason my friends could not go. So I thought why not I go alone and enjoy the women there.
I was a little nervous because I was going somewhere alone for the first time. But I gathered some courage and I went to that cafe in the evening. That was my first date with myself. When I reached there in the cafe, I liked the view and the ambience there so much that I can’t even describe it.
Yes, I was a little nervous at first, I was feeling a little nervous too, but after some time when I ordered food and it was brought in front of me, after that all the nervousness was gone.
So I will say the same to you, it is possible that you may feel a little nervous in the beginning. But once you get used to the atmosphere, believe me there is nothing better than a solo date. So let’s move on to our first solo date idea.
1. Coffee Shop Adventure
As I just mentioned above, my first solo date was in a cafe. If you are planning to go on your first solo date, then I will tell you one thing in very simple words. You can go to places like coffee shops.
This will reduce your nervousness and give you the confidence to go on a solo date.
There you can order different types of coffee and food and eat all these things while enjoying yourself.
You should go to a good cafe which has a very good ambience. You will get a positive vibe from it. You can interact with people there.
If you are an introvert, then you can take a book with you. You can read it while drinking coffee, I am telling you the truth, you will not find happiness anywhere else.
2. Movie Night at Home or Cinema
I am telling you about my lifestyle solo date line wise. As I told you, I had my first solo date in a cafe, then the second solo date was in a movie night theatre.
If you cannot go to the theatre, then you can have a solo date at home when you are alone. I will share my experience of going to the theatre.
After I went on a solo date in a cafe, I gained a little confidence. Then I chose the next destination for myself as a movie night.
Believe me, the fun I had that night while watching a movie, I had never had before. I bought a popcorn and ate it comfortably while watching the movie.
Sometimes watching a movie alone is quite comfortable. This seemed no less than an adventure to me and now my confidence had increased a little more.
So I thought why not choose a museum or an art gallery as my next destination.
3. Explore a Local Museum or Art Gallery
To tell you the truth, I did not find local museums and art galleries that entertaining.
But one day, I don’t know what happened, I thought why not go to a local museum to explore myself? There was a local museum near my house.
So I thought why not try it. As I had gone on a solo date twice, my confidence had increased a lot and now I could handle many things.
Whatever anxiety I used to have was now under my control. So I thought this is a great opportunity to explore myself further.
So I went to the local museum, there I saw different types of paintings. Talked to the people there and also tried a lot to know about it.
If you like to read history, then I will tell you about the local museum, you can go there, you will get to learn a lot.
I really enjoyed going to the museum while traveling solo for the first time in my life.
Read More4. Bookstore Browsing
As I told you, my first date was in a cafe. The first time I did this was that I had problems interacting with people, so I took a book with me.
While reading the book, I was enjoying a lot. Keeping this in mind, when I was leaving the museum, I thought of exploring a bookstore nearby.
Since I loved reading novels, I used to go to bookstores often. But I had never gone to a bookstore alone before today.
I always went with my friends or family members. When I left the museum, this was what was going on in my mind. Why even experience this thing?When I entered the book store, my only focus was to see a lot of novels in the books there and buy them so that next time when I go for solo traveling or go on a solo date.
I can keep one of those books with me and whenever I am bored somewhere, I can read those books which I will enjoy a lot.
5. Take a Nature Walk or Hike
It was just a few days ago that I had bought four or five books from that book store. Then a Sunday came.
So I thought why not utilize this Sunday and go for a hike. There was a mountain about two hours away from my house where people often used to go for trekking.
I put one of those five books in my bag, took the necessary things and went for trekking. When I went there, I saw that a lot of people had come for trekking and many people were with their family and friends.
The fear of talking to people was now over. Now I did not have any problem in interacting with people.
When I was trekking, I made many new friends there, who used to travel solo. I talked to them a lot. And while talking, I did not even realize when the trek ended.
When I was going home after trekking, I don’t know why I felt that I have done something strange in life.
I had made new friends. I learned a lot of new things. It felt like life was teaching me a lot of things and now I have to continue this thing further.
6. Try a New Recipe or Bake Solo
When I came back home after trekking that Sunday, I still had so much energy left that I started scrolling YouTube. And while scrolling, I suddenly came across a recipe for pasta. And let me tell you, I love pasta.
I was thinking how beautiful this day has been. I learned so many things on the trek, so why not make this evening even more beautiful with my favorite dish pasta.
If you live alone, then you can really make cooking your companion. Write down your favorite recipes in a book and start playing songs on your phone and prepare the recipe while listening to the songs.
I am telling you the truth, it will be so enjoyable that I can’t even describe it. I was tired from the trek but when I was preparing the recipe while listening to the songs.
I didn’t even realize when the pasta was ready. When I tasted it, it was really very tasty.
It felt like today’s Sunday was spent quite well and I gained knowledge about a lot of things.
7. Take Yourself Out to a Nice Dinner
One day I was coming home from college. So what happened was that I felt like eating something in a restaurant. So it often happens that I drop my friend at his home and then come back to my home.
So the same thing happened that night. When I was coming home from college, I dropped my friend at his home and then while coming back I felt hungry so I entered a restaurant. Alone.
My heart became very happy after seeing the MBS there. I immediately ordered something from the menu there and started looking at the people around there.
Then after a while the food came and I am telling the truth that I enjoyed eating that food a lot.
If you are alone and want to go on a solo date, then a dinner date can be a very good option.
8. Attend a Workshop or Class
It is often seen that the craze for solo traveling is very common among the youth.
Like I too had done a lot of solo traveling during my college days. One of the things that I liked the most was attending workshops.
There were many workshops that were out of state or out of station, so what I used to do was to book a train ticket or a bus ticket and go to that place to attend the workshop. This way I used to do solo traveling and also learn a lot of new skills.
If you too want to gain some skills while traveling solo, then you can go to workshops, there you will get to learn a lot of things and make a lot of new connections.
I used to do this often during my college days. So you can also do it. It is very beneficial.
9. Watch the Sunset or Stargaze
By the way, watching sunset alone is a different kind of fun. Whenever I have gone on a solo date to watch the sunset, I have often found that females are very happy to see a romantic sunset.
If you are a female, you can plan a solo date at the sunset point. Go there, see the atmosphere there, enjoy the sunset.
And if possible, take some healthy snacks with you. Because the real fun of sunset comes in watching it while eating something and you can also do a lot of photo shoots there.
Believe me, this experience is going to be very amazing in your life.
Conclusion
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I think solo traveling is very good. But if done with caution, you will be completely happy after doing all the solo dates I have mentioned. Thank you.
